Hats off to my little brother (who isn't so little anymore!). Today is his birthday and he has decided to take the day off from taking care of Mom to explore the Queen Mary which is docked in Long Beach, California at the moment. From the pictures he posted on Facebook, it is a spectacular ship. I am glad he got a bit of a break. I know it is not easy dealing with someone who is old and sick and grumpy and adrift. Even though it is not 24/7 care, it is tiring day after day to be confined and basically at someone else's beck and call. After awhile you lose your patience more easily not to mention the boredom.
So happy happy birthday. You are an exceptional brother and I forgive you for all the scraps and fights we got in when we were kids. Giving up your livelihood and income and freedom and choices to care for your Mom who needs family right now is an amazing sacrifice that speaks volumes about the person you are. Celebrate well!
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